To expand on this a little, a lot of you seem to inherently respond to romance with sex. So everytime you see a partner do something romantic your response is “I can’t wait to get on my knees!” Instead of being in that moment and responding to love with love. A lot of you can’t conceptualize romance for the sake of pure romance; instead when something romantic happens you start talking about how much you can’t wait to buss’ it open. Conversely, a lot of you have learned to only perform romantic gestures with the expectation that your partner will buss’ it open. Y’all just don’t seem to be able to understand what a healthy relationship looks like because you can’t separate sex from it.